On July 23, family members, friends, staff, fellow residents, community supporters, and elected officials came together to honor Thomas “Tommy” Carretta as he celebrates his 100th birthday—a remarkable achievement and a moment filled with gratitude, reflection, and joy. Joining the celebration will be New York City Council Member James F. Gennaro, Assembly Member David Weprin, Assembly Member Edward Braunstein, and Assembly Member Nily Rozic, all supporters of Queens Centers for Progress and the individuals it serves.
A resident of Queens Centers for Progress’ (QCP) Groh Residence in Jamaica Estates since 1984, Tommy has become a beloved member of the QCP family. Known for his gentle nature, quiet warmth, and independent spirit, Tommy has touched the lives of countless people over the years through his kindness, perseverance, and appreciation for the simple pleasures in life.
Tommy grew up in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn, the only child of Thomas Sr. and Edna Carretta, in a family with deep musical roots—his uncles Joe and Nick Carretta performed with the Jerry Carretta Orchestra. He often looks back on lessons his father taught him, and those memories remain some of the ones he returns to most.
Independence has always mattered to Tommy. He has spent a lifetime taking pride in doing things for himself, and even now, he sometimes hesitates before accepting help—not out of stubbornness, but because he still sees himself as capable. Staff who know him well have learned that patience goes a long way: given time and offered support with respect rather than urgency, Tommy comes around, understanding that the help is there to protect his independence, not take it away.
He likes his days to have a rhythm to them. Tommy finds comfort in routine and prefers to move at his own pace, without being rushed—and those around him have found that giving him that space is part of what makes each day work well for him.
Whether listening to the news on his pocket radio, enjoying the timeless music of Frank Sinatra and Tony Bennett on his tablet, coloring, Tommy will often stop to share stories and memories from years gone by, Tommy finds joy in the everyday moments that make life meaningful. Those who know him best treasure his thoughtful conversations, his determination to do things his own way, and the wisdom he shares through stories of his past.
Because music has always been part of Tommy’s life, the celebration will feature performances by vocalists Susan Agin and Bobby Harden, a fitting tribute to a man whose life has been filled with melody as much as memory.
“Reaching 100 years old is an extraordinary milestone, and we are thrilled to celebrate Tommy and all that he means to our community,” said Terri Ross. “Tommy’s warmth, resilience, and spirit have enriched the lives of so many people. This celebration is a tribute to the wonderful person he is and the many memories he has created throughout his life.”
The birthday celebration was held at Bourbon Street in Bayside, where guests gathered to recognize Tommy’s longevity, and the relationships, experiences, and moments that have filled his century of life.
As Tommy turns 100, Queens Centers for Progress proudly joins his family and friends in celebrating a century of memories and an extraordinary life that continues to inspire everyone fortunate enough to know him.
Queens Centers for Progress has provided person-centered programs and services for 76 years, empowering children and adults with developmental disabilities to live fulfilling lives and become active members of their communities. For more information about Queens Centers for Progress and upcoming events, please visit www.queenscp.org.
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Since 1950, Queens Centers for Progress has been a cornerstone of the Queens community, providing services and support to children and adults with developmental disabilities. Our goal is to promote independence, community involvement, and quality of life, offering an array of services that meet the needs of people with developmental disabilities and their families. For more information, please contact Wendy Phaff Gennaro at (718) 380-3000, ext. 325, or via email at WGennaro@queenscp.org.
